廊桥遗梦（梅丽尔·斯特里普主演）读后感 读书笔记(3)篇

How should we judge the love affair between Francesca and Robert Kincaid?

If I read this story before I go down the threshold of marriage and still fancied love can endure time, I would never open this book, which is marked as an extramarital love. We always condemn the unfaithful actions in marriage, so before I began to read this story, I still hold doubts in my choice. But this story didn’t fail me!

I see how they fall in love at the first sight; I see how they get struck by the feeling of “flipped”; I see how they struggle to restrain their feeling into the rule of society; I see how they dance, kiss and have each other in a natural but emotional way. Yes, I am happy for their union, because I was convicted that they were soul mate ---- perfectly matched and heavenly enjoyed.

Let me quote some words touched me deeply.

And he knew finally the meaning of all the small footprints on all the deserted beaches he had ever walked, of all the secret cargoes carried by ships that had never sailed, of all the curtained faces that had watched him pass down winding streets of twilight cities. And, like a great hunter of old who has traveled distant miles and now sees the light of his home campfires, his loneliness dissolved. At last. At last. He had come so far...so far. And he lay upon her, perfectly formed and unalterably complete in his love for her. At last.

Toward morning, he raised himself slightly and said, looking straight into her eyes, “This is why Im here on this planet, at this time, Francesca. Not to travel or make pictures, but to love you. I know that now. I have been falling from the rim of a great, high place, somewhere back in time, for many more years than I have lived in this life. And through all of those years, I have been falling toward you.”

At last! At last!

They met, but too late.

They only have each other for four days, which craved mark into their heart permanently.

Francesca chose responsibly, while Robert Kincaid chose respect.

“Before you, I have a couple of women, but after you, none.” as Robert Kincaid wrote in his letter.

i shed tears on Roberts departure, because i know they would never meet each other again. 

“ 旧梦是好梦，没有实现，但是我很高兴我有过这些梦。”

世界上遗憾的事情太多，不能带你走是我最难过的事。

读完这个故事，我早已泪流满面。或许是对这个世界太过失望，早就放弃了许许多多的希望。

爱情的美好，不过是四天的相遇，正如弗朗西丝卡开车去桥边贴纸条所说，“‘ 当白蛾子张开翅膀时’，如果你还想吃晚饭，今晚你事毕之后可以过来，什么时候都行。”爱情就是不顾一切的疯狂，冲动，抓住一切能抓住的。又像是翻腾过后的平静，当时间来临，还有家庭，孩子的责任又深深牵绊着弗朗西丝卡，这一切都告诉她，不能，她不能跟他走。

最后的落幕，生时身体不能一起走，死时遗体不顾世俗的反对，一定是他，属于罗伯特的，他的骨灰撒在桥边，她的骨灰要撒在他的身边。

或许每个混沌的宇宙，这一份爱情有几辈子的机遇不会再遇见，最后，她依然属于他。

两个人都十分美好，我依然爱着你，痛苦的渴望让我追寻你，愿你一切都好。

好多年前依稀记得曾经看过《廊桥遗梦》这部电影。今天再来读这本书，感受又有些不同了。人的一生都在追求自己的幸福。而男女之间的相遇相识，相知相爱却是非常偶然的。如果一旦错过，或者一方不去主动争取，错过也就错过了。在一番短暂炽热的爱恋之后，弗朗西丝卡以责任为由，选择了放弃，为了家庭，她重新回归了平静的乡村生活。罗伯特则成全了她的选择，即使是在他生命的尽头也没有再来打扰弗朗西丝卡，只是希望他的骨灰能够洒在这座廊桥周围，静静的看着他心爱的女人。每个看到这里的读者都会为他们二十多年的厮守而动容。也许，这就是《廊桥遗梦》留传于世的关键所在。读完这本书，掩卷沉思，人生中仿佛有一种神力指引着你走向一个端点，在这个端点上也会有另一个人向它走来。你们在这里不期而遇了。这是冥冥中注定的一种安排，或是三生三世才会有的结局。这种相遇没有惊天动地的故事，只是人生中一个插曲。但是这次相遇，或者说是这个插曲，将会改变他们往后的人生。他们互相成了深爱的人，互相牵挂的人，互相朝思暮想的人。距离虽然是道屏障，但是思念却不能阻挡，爱恋也反而更深切了。这一切都说明，人生的际遇是不可避免的，就像是书中的两个主人公一样。记住廊桥，记住弗朗西丝卡，记住罗伯特.金凯德。