廊桥遗梦（梅丽尔·斯特里普主演）读书赏析(3)篇

This book is a love story between a married woman Francesca and a photographer Robert Kincaid. They met each other at an usual day, but it was an unusual day at their whole life. Kincaid went by Francescas house and looked for a covered bridge at that day, and Francesca showed the way to him. At the way to the brodge, they began to know each other and felt something special between them. Kincaid could stay at the town for two weeks to finish his work. Francesca helped him to take photos about the bridge, and they talked about the people around them and their own life. They played guitar, drank, danced and so on. All in all, they spent four days together. It was the most special days for two lovers, but time does pass by quickly when having fun. Four days passed, Francescas husband and children would come back home. She wanted to go with Kincaid, but she couldnt, she had to stay for her family. Kincaid loved her so deeply, so he respected her decision and he went alone. They never saw each other again at the rest of their life. There were just two letters, one from Kincaid to Francesca, another from Francesca to her children to tell the love story about her and Kincaid, and a photo Kincaid took for Francesca could prove their love.

Its not an easy thing for us to meet a person who we love. In my long life, if I could meet someone I love, even just four days we could spend together, I would feel statisfied at the rest of my life. So I believe it is unnecessary for us to feel sorry to Kincaid and Francesca. The four days was a special and precious memory for them. When they renenbered the special four days they had together, they would feel lucky, but no regrets and pity.

记得周传雄的《黄昏》：

黄昏再美终要黑夜，依然记得从你口中说出再见坚决如铁，昏暗中有种烈日灼身的错觉，黄昏的地平线，划出一句离别，爱情进入永夜，依然记得从你眼中滑落的泪伤心欲绝。

他们的爱情从开始就是极美的黄昏了吧，他们的相遇是最美的晚霞，绚烂迷人却又短暂如昙花一现。最感人的不是他们四天里的相爱与惺惺相惜，而是罗伯特对弗兰西斯卡责任的理解以及对她的承诺：绝对不会打扰她平静安宁的生活，也绝不会让她的家人遭受小镇的流言蜚语中。一个男人为一个相遇相识相知相爱才四天的女人这么做，并且余生都在怀念她，死后也要换个方式陪在她身边，我相信他是真的爱她的。而弗兰西斯卡，终其余生都会在怀念罗伯特的日子里度过，她亦是个有梦的女人，在遇到罗伯特的时候，她才发现她的心还是鲜活跳动的，那一刻，她大胆奔放，放弃了小镇对女子的束缚，无视小镇那些人对罗伯特的奇特眼光，主动邀请他，我想这四天才是她真正的为自己而活吧。她也是个有心的人，忍痛割爱，将家庭的责任扛到自己的肩上，遗憾了一生。

        本来打算读英文的我还是翻到后面读起了中文，读完后真的想大哭一场，好的爱情是灵魂的相知。罗伯特和弗朗西丝卡用了四天从相识、相知、相爱，却用了二十四年分离、思念、等待，最后终于成全两人将骨灰撒在廊桥。

你难道看不到，我是多么爱你，以至于我不忍看你有一时一刻受到约束。这样做等于把你这个野性的、无比漂亮的动物杀死，而你的力量也就随之而消亡。

如果现在我这样我这样做了，这思想负担会使我变成另外一个人，不再是你所爱的那个女人。

        都说爱情是要经历相识—相爱—分享—同化四个阶段，同化的了就直接一辈子，同化不了就会争吵分手。但你爱她或他，为什么非要把他（她）变成另一个你？应该是自私吧，一开始爱上了对方最后还是爱自己。最好的爱情应该就是书里说到的尊重，在一起也好不在一起也罢，彼此的尊重让我们都会成为最好的自已，我的灵魂有你的影子，你的身边有我的存在。